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already cancelled already canell already
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canell I feel like K is like the older
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brother and I feel like YZ is the
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younger brother for sure happy with that
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I me I only know being the younger
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brother do you have only older brothers
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mhm I'm the youngest I'm a baby that
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makes so much sense but I'm like the
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baby are you the youngest brother are
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you the old I'm middle I'm the middle
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kid yeah you're the one that's forgotten
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about e no oh yeah now I'm actually
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starting to realize yeah I am the one
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that was forgotten about but I always
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thought I was The Golden
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Child really yeah oh we should have this
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chat about child syndrome young child
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middle child and older well you only
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have one sibling yeah I was youngest
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that's so small for family the youngest
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100% is always treated um the best ah no
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you know what I think the eldest you
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know I I think the eldest
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are we recording this yeah this is all
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rolling right now I was going to say I
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think it also depends on whether the
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eldest is a boy or a girl what do you
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mean so I've seen I've seen um with my
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own family my sister being the eldest um
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sibling she is the favorite whether you
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like it or not she'll all she's the
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eldest and she's a female every and
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she's a female if she was male n
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definitely not the the favorite I would
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be the favorite I feel like okay that's
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very interesting I feel like the oldest
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sibling is the one that has to go
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through all the hardships in the family
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because they're literally the guinea pig
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of like what works and what doesn't work
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so they have to go through like they
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basically the ones that open the the
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pathway for the the future kids to come
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through and do whatever whatever they
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want what it is is that the oldest the
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oldest is the uh one that the parents
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grow with the other kids are the ones
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that the parents
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raise oh interesting that's a good way
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to look at it m that's that's
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fascinating but I feel like but no but I
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feel well yeah okay I get that but I
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also feel like the older one gets the
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most punished right like no because you
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said not punished but you you have
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expect you have uh yeah expectation or
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respons like they have a responsibility
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to set an example yeah exactly cuz I
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feel like when parents first have kids
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they want to do everything by the book
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like you have to make sure you do get
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this degree and you have to make sure
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that you blah blah blah blah and kids
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over it by the four yeah yeah she's got
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a she's got but here's the difference
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between myself and and for example my
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brothers right my sister was always a
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golden child she was very like you know
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the only girl only girl she was always
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you know um sticking to the rules blah
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blah blah I don't think she ever did
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anything that she shouldn't have done um
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but then my brothers came along right
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and it was like they would they would do
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things against what my parents wished
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right but they'd hide it from them right
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so for example my brothers would get
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earrings okay and then you'd see them
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throughout all of Summer wearing a
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beanie covering their ears right
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me on the other hand dad what I'm
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getting earrings no you're not not
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asking for your permission and then I'd
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leave the house you could do that to
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your parents well I did they weren't
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happy they weren't happy with it aren't
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your parents like are they like very
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cultural like very are they religious as
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well yeah extremely yeah and and they
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were cool for you to just no they
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weren't cool they weren't cool with the
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difference was I didn't care about it's
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like you know what you already dealt
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with this with my brothers I'm just the
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third like so for example my my brother
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that's on top of me so not my oldest
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brother Middle Brother um he got a tatto
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on his back right a big tatto on his
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back right he hit hit it from my dad for
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10 years 10 10 years me I got I got my
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first ttoo and I went dad and he's like
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what and I
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went and I showed him didn't you get
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reprimanded though like what was what
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was the punish I just didn't care oh
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what do you mean did you get in trouble
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like was it like you got grounding or
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you got no there's no such thing as
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grounding in in I was trying you get
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belted yeah that's what I'm saying you
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get beled not for this stuff no no no I
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get belted for being a piece of [ __ ] kid
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that's why i' get belted and you're the
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youngest I'm the youngest but here's the
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thing here's the thing here's the thing
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here's the thing right up until my
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latest tattoos which I got three months
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ago which is like this one this one and
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this one yeah right three months
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ago I had 15 tattoos before this my dad
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didn't speak to me for 3 months three
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months yes and he's said specifically
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because you got the tattoos so he looked
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at goes they knew I said yeah we
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bickered for a bit and then he just even
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though it has religious like quotes he
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doesn't care he doesn't care it's it's
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and family traditional quotes stuff
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there yeah I got my mom's reaction when
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I like I'm I'm 30 and I got my tattooo
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maybe when I was 28 and I was still
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scared to show my mom that I got a
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tattooo and then I remember showing it
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to we have a reaction of FaceTime and it
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says trust the process and she was like
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why would you get instructions on your
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hand like so like what's wrong with you
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and does your brother have tattoos no he
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doesn't have tattoos okay so she so so
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hold on are you are you the golden would
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you say that you're The Golden Child I
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think my parents just I'm so
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lovable oh my God to be honest I think
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my just like I'm very both my brother
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and I are very close to my parents right
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like cuz we didn't really have much
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extended family it was just the direct
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family we grew up you know uh we moved
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to camber we moved around and whatever
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but we were both very close but my
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brother like he did everything by the
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book like he got the job he was very
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naughty by the way like he had he hung
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out with a bit of hooligans and stuff
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going up but I feel like Hooligans of
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CA running the streets guess or the
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streets planting trees yeah but he was
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cleaning up the
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mess doing a degree no but he was he was
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good like he he he got a degree he's got
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his own like company now he then there
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was me who was a bit of like the black
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she of the family in the sense that
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that's racist but yeah oh okay are you
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darker than your brother no what I mean
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okay fine maybe what I mean by that is
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like I I was a bit like you know the
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drama kid I wanted to do the Creative
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Arts and I wanted to be an actress and I
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wanted to be a musician and I remember
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deferring my degree to do Secret
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auditions and my parents like we can't
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control this kid but they now like with
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everything I'm doing now my parents are
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like very proud and like you know good
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on you for doing that but it took for
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them to understand like all the crazy
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things I was doing but in terms of
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favorite child I think I'm the favorite
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Child but I'm sure if you ask my brother
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he will think he's a favorite child so I
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think it's one of those things do you
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think it's ever justifiable for a parent
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to treat each child differently I think
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that's natural yes right so you treat
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the fa like you treat the the old the
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older child differently to the other
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siblings wouldn't you well I'm pretty
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sure the other siblings are probably
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treating the parents differently right I
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think it's natural they're all
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individuals at the end of the day I
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don't I think you should have a favorite
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kid is that a thing do you have a
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favorite kid Ken no yeah see I don't I
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don't think
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you on this but dude whether you like it
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or not and I've asked this multiple
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times every parent has a favorite child
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they just will not admit it no I don't I
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I I genuinely don't I love them both for
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the same reason and different re yeah I
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believe that I believe that there's
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always a favorite child they both give
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me the best cuddles and they both hug my
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head I love having my head head hugged I
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I don't think it's favorite I think what
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you're trying say is there's one child
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that might be just more obedient and so
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you no not obedient I think it's one if
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anything is one child that you you
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connect with more in that present time
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for example lla she's a bit older I can
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hold conversations easy we she's you
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know close to fully conversating with
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you so it's different I mean as you get
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older I have an experience as a you know
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both of them can talk and all that stuff
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but you can pick up which which child
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would talk more which child would would
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give more
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um which child's more nurturing which
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you know which which child you connect
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more with but that doesn't Define it as
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favorite that just defines it as a
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different relationship but you love them
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equally and in different ways at the
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same time do you guys want a quick study
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a quick study that was done regardless
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of the reason some research shows that
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many parents almost certainly do have a
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favorite child I I couldn't pick I
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couldn't I think maybe you know maybe
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it's too early on maybe uh whether they
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admit it or not uh this study has shown
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that up to 74% of mothers and 70% of
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fathers have shown to exhibit uh
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preferred treatment towards one child
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wow that's awful that's awful I I think
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that that would be I think the gener
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like our generation down would have a
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very different way of parenting I think
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it's very similar to me and my cats
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right one of them is really sweet to me
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the other one's a [ __ ] so I'm a bit more
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[ __ ] to the one that but you treat it
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as as it treats you I still feed it and
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[ __ ] yeah so you still got to do
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everything equally but there's some
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certain things that you would do
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differently with one cat to the other so
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like I'd walk in and I'd be like I'd be
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like oh hello BW and I'd like give him a
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nice little Pat and scratch under the
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thing you wouldn't say hi you just say
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Bubbles and then I look at Bubbles and I
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go hello you and he I'll give him a nice
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little Pat and I scratch yeah but he's
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he's growing he's growing to uh he's
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becoming more affection he's becoming
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more affection he's learning in your
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family talking about cats who do you
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think's your favorite child in your
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family like out your my parents my
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sister oh so yeah you did say that
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actually but then again my sister also
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didn't put my parents through [ __ ]
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hell all the boys did would you say out
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of the boys how many are there three
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three you're included in one you're
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you're included as one of the as one of
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the boys yes yeah I'm I'm sure right let
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me just check just want to double check
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yeah yeah I'm included as one of the
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boys yeah but you know you could say
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there's three boys are yeah and me as
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well so there's four but there's three
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all together yeah three all together
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okay we just wanted to get the the
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numbers correct uh out of the three
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would you say you're the top favorite or
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like no we're all as um equally [ __ ]
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as each other 100% yeah it's kind of
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like like that with us boys yeah no my
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sister my sister didn't put my parents
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through um hardship but I feel like the
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boys did were very rebellious see I'm
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still so shocked though that like you
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had the the balls to basically go get
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like tattoos and stuff I've just I've
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just never cared yeah because it's it's
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it's like people fear their parents and
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then people go uh what are they going to
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do I still remember getting like a b
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belly butt and piercing and I did it
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behind my like parents' back and I and I
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think subconsciously I got really like
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my head about it and I have you have a
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belly piercing I used to like years ago
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no was it was really unfortunate though
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because by the third day like I got it
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for I had it for 3 Days um and on the
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third day I was playing I don't know if
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I want to share this story you have know
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I was playing with the with the belly
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with the actual ring ring and I was in
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the gym toilet and I was playing with
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the ring like I was just looking at it
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right it fell in the toilet it fell in
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the toilet it was on a Sunday and
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everything was I think closed was camera
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what a shitty situation then yeah but I
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think like honestly you go that's a sign
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I shouldn't have it yeah basically
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because on the second day my mom found
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out anyway so I hit it for her for a day
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second day I was having conversation
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with my mom and I don't know for
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whatever reason I was
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like and like she saw my belly button
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piercing yeah I don't know how that even
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happened but she did and then she was
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like do you oh and she was very upset do
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you know what was the worst thing I
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think that I had done at a young age
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what my dad was just like and my mom
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both they were like what the [ __ ] is
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wrong with this kid wasn't even that bad
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but in their eyes it's like what the
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[ __ ] mhm I had a eyebrow piecing yeah I
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had one too yeah which side what are you
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laughing at which side left or right
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left yeah left left but mine was
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different mine didn't mine wasn't the
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traditional through here mine was
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sideways so so through here why did you
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get a sideways he want to be different I
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just want to be different it looked
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really good I'll show you a photo yeah
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it looked [ __ ] great why did you take
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it
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off I don't know I think I just over
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like it just became like who the [ __ ]
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has eyebrow Rings anymore yeah I don't
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see that many seen and iing in ages yeah
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they're not really a thing anymore I
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might get I might get it again so you
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can be different again yeah transend
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Setter um but yeah my parents were like
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this kid has lost his [ __ ] mind like
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it's it's it's the equivalent of like me
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getting a t on my face right now yeah
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yeah take it out and it goes true the
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worst thing I did was year seven we
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organized someone's older brother to buy
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alcohol for us yeah we went to our
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friends I went to our friends house how
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old were you year seven what the [ __ ] 12
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years old hell yeah that is Young and
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then we we all started drinking at this
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party this was the end of year s so it
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was on holidays was like a like last day
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or the day after our last day of school
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yeah and it was all the boys and we
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obvious and we got Blue Vodka Cruisers
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so we're all drinking had a barbecue all
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drinking at my mate's house and his mom
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was a teacher and you know teachers have
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that instinct that these boys are up to
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trouble yeah so as we were all getting
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smashed we were downstairs and his mom
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walks downstairs and I'm halfway through
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chugging chugging a vodka Cruiser and I
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and I Look to her and she goes what's
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that and I'm
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like it's a v i said it's a V and she
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goes no that's not a v what color was it
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blue right so it's a blue bottle clearly
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said V she came over and she grabbed it
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and all and then and then all the boys
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started packing all the bead all the
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bottles sorry in my bag and I'm like
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hell [ __ ] what are he's doing anyhow she
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then contacted all the parents oh what a
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snitch and then said this is what was
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happening what a snitch and then we came
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up with a lie and said we found the case
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in the bush when we went for a bushw
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walk earlier that day we thought we'd
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bring it home and drink it and then that
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was like the worst thing I did at that
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age that my parents know about and uh I
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uh got a book for Christmas I wish I was
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I wish I was I got a book for Christmas
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and it wasn't even a good book it was a
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[ __ ] book you remember what book it was
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it was like some some fantasy story I
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used to love getting books for Christmas
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that's weird but you know like in that
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in that situation K that you were in
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where the the M snitched and [ __ ] right
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do you think if you were a bit smarter
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as a kid and you knew that you could
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have leverage right I'm this is going to
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sound so [ __ ] up right but like
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imagine she's like oh did she tell you
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I'm going to go tell your parents blah
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blah blah yeah all of us she say I'm
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call imagine you just walked up to her
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and you went yeah well I'll tell my
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parents you touched me
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inappropriately like imagine you had no
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seriously imagine you had that why does
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your brain go there because you know
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what I realized growing up I actually
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had so much [ __ ] power as a kid and I
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never used it like even at school even
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at school imagine my principal which is
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pretty [ __ ] up because one of the
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principles at my school actually got
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done for molesting children but [ __ ] he
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wasn't my principal was like when we
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left and graduated it was the same
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school is he in jail now yeah he's
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[ __ ] locked up for Life piece of [ __ ]
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maybe not for life I don't know how this
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D system is but whatever um yeah like
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imagine just being at school and the
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teacher's like about to [ __ ] suspend
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you and like I'm calling your parents
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blah blah blah it's like yeah that's fun
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you touched me in the bathrooms the
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other day and he'll be like what you'll
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be like yeah yeah but that's so bad I
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know ruin someone's life 100% but like
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you had a lot of power as a child yeah
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you don't ever think she would have
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snitched on you guys if you said that to
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her probably not but then yeah but there
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was a lot of what I think of Russell
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Peters somebody's going to get a h
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somebody going to get
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a poor child services on you don't abuse
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that pal though don't abuse that I used
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to have a nose ring too by the way God I
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was cute like my nose
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ring who are you flip it flip it flip it
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hold on this is emo that was a photo oh
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you still have that tattoo face yeah
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tattoos usually don't leave your body I
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didn't
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even you still have that tattoo wow he
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hasn't he hasn't rubbed off what I meant
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to say some I say things what I was
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meant to say is you had it that age like
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it's not a new tattoo like you even know
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what age that is you look to be honest
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17 in that photo really yeah guys that
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was only like 5 years ago 6 years ago
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really yeah 2017 that was posted um but
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yeah I had a nose ring I'm surprised for
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an Indian Nisha you ain't got no nose
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ring no okay so this is what happened I
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wanted a nose ring really badly but um
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but a lot of Indians do have the nose
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ring is that what you just said yeah I
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said I'm surprised you didn't have one
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yeah I really wanted one but then one
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day we don't have jewelry big
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enough [ __ ] you okay but you know what
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on a similar vein people said I don't
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know if it'll be suit you and then I got
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a pimple like literally where a nose
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ring would be one day and someone said
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to me that's how it looked like that's
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how you look like with a nose ring and
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it bad if you got a pimple on your nose
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oh I shouldn't say it's so slack no
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don't say it then don't say it then just
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fight every urge right now just so you
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know y has a a bigger nose than you I
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know if a had like a pimple there she
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look like a [ __ ] witch I'm so
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sorry [ __ ] wizard can talk [ __ ]
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wizard of just you can talk well if I'm
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a witch then you're like my sidekick all
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right because you have a witchy nose too
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I'm going to get a nose piecing just
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because of that I'm just going to sit
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over here I'm just going to sit over
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here in perfect nose land and I'm just
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going to relax must be nice no I'll be
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I'll get a sideway freaking piercing on
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like the bridge of my nose to be
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different yeah sor ma'am we don't have
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jewelry big oh we do but it's a big
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