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hands already cancelled already canell already canell K and yaa it's the
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already cancel podcast Hello everybody welcome back welcome welcome was everyone's weekend was it good oh my
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gosh it was full on yeah well we get into the weekends but can everyone just raise their left hand for a second everyone just raise a left hand all
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right now Yas put your left hand down Nisha keep it up what's on your uh
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sleeve there Nishi oh my God okay you know show that to the camera yeah all right whatever I'm a grub what happened
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was filthy filthy yeah what's what's the explanation guys you've always said that she dresses like a homeless person this
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is not a homeless look it is gold chains and everything fake gold chains yeah you know this is a handbag
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like a chain off a handbag I'm not going be telling Pap that yeah well I'm
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thrifting it's it's actually what happened with your um sleeves there oh yeah right the coffee spilled on the
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laptop and I had to save the laptop obviously so I just cleaned it with my sleeves yeah but all you've done is
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spread it throughout your laptop now no no you couldn't just get like a napkin from outside literally napkins
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everywhere no cuz I was in a predicament cuz coffee went like everywhere it went on my laptop it went in my eye it went on my nose and so I couldn't even see
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and I was trying to clean my laptop and then you that's going to be very hard to come out no it won't coffee stains and a
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white jumper yeah mate you going to have to take that to Mom I got I got this
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okay I'll wear this on the next episode The Next Episode and it'll be clean all
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right well we'll hold that to you H everyone it's about time you throw that Jumper in the B why do you hate it so much you know how many compliments I get
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on this jumper that's the compliments are fake we've spoken about this Compliments are secret digs they're
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secret they are people people go this is a cool jump where'd you get it from and then I have to tell them and they go and
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then they turn to their friend and said never go to that shop no this is not a mean girl situation people love it they
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love this jumper it's a very popular one we'll sus it out then well yeah well it seems like a string of bad luck is
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happening to you of Nisha yeah actually it's true so the weekend right like this has never happened to me before I went
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to my friend's wedding and I was so so excited like I've been wanting these two to get married for such a long time
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they're a beautiful couple and finally the ceremony was going to happen the reception so long story short I got
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ready I had to be there by 12:00 I had to leave at 11:00 cuz it took an hour to get there as soon as I left outside
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ready to lock the door I I like you know how you have one of those doors where you can like twist it and lock it and
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then you can use you can use your key to Lo uh lock the deadlock so like a normal door yeah like a normal front door yeah
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yeah well anyway I did that and then I got ready to like lock the deadlock so I went to go find my keys in my bag and
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then I realized I locked myself out of the house and I your carc are inside inside the house on the couch which is
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exactly where I thought I left them and I was in so much panic mode I call up Jared he was one of the groomsmen oh no
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and he was like it's fine it's fine just call the locksmith I had to wait like 40 minutes what the locksmith came it's
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fine just call the locksmith what what do you mean what that's not normal what do you mean jump in the car
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get to the ceremony no but well yeah okay I mean that's I I did think of that
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the lockmith out later Jared I'm sure Jared has keys oh Jared just did a one
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n okay hold on hold on hold on no I well there was many things because like I needed to get the lock CU my dog's like
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he needs to eat food as well so if I waited too long for that then by the time I got home like I like it would be
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like I have to wait another hour before my dog eats lunch what so let me explain this right I'm so
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confused this just sounds like you've got a lot of things on your mind you need to go to therapy hold on hold on
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hold on I gave my dog breakfast in the morning and then I thought after the ceroni I'll come back home I'll drive back home and around 1:00 I'll feed
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Vinnie lunch right if I if I came home at 1 from the Uber yeah then I'd have to
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wait another hour to organize a locksmith debacle okay yeah I get that I
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get that and then the poor dog will be so hungry I I'd feel terrible and he was already crying cuz I was leaving it was
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too much he's going to surv first and foremost the dog will survive it's fine if he's going to go a couple hours without food whatever that's life right
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secondly who actually gives a [ __ ] you're going to miss the ceremony like who actually cares no I I was really upset that what do you mean I like I was
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like I was devastated that I missed the ceremony that's my favorite part of the whole bloody thing watching them get
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together come not the not the ceremony that's not the favorite No One Believes you have nature nobody likes cere nobody
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enjoys a ceremony I'm okay hold on the vows them walking down the aisle seeing the the
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the groom look at his his his wife and like his future wife who's going to be his wife in like 5 minutes is the most
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beautiful thing I guess I guess I guess I guess seeing the the groom and just sitting there and going is he going to cry on not and everyone's doing a live
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poll yeah you do the best yeah yeah that's right everyone doesn't a poll or a bet about who if he's going to cry or
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not did you cry at your wedding yeah I teed up I te did you actually cry well Define what crying
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is just did the Tea drop from your eye yeah
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probably okay this is what Jared says too I saw him as I walked down the aisle
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and we have this debate like it's honestly we've had this debate so many times where and he's so lucky that the
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cameraman didn't actually get his shot of him looking at me what's wrong with what's wrong with with with someone
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crying no he didn't cry but he says the exact same thing I did cry like definitely there was tears I'm like you
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didn't I was heaving walking down that I was like you know why though cuz my dad
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my dad he lit I was fine but like 5 minutes before walking into the church and my dad grabs me cuz he's going to
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you know he had to walk me down and he starts crying and no he didn't cry but he like quoted some film like that was
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really emotional he's like in life you got a you know daughter whatever does this like thing and at that point I'm
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balling and it was like he it was his plan was done he was like perfect let's go I was like like
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all the way and it was like and I'm an ugly crier so when Jared like pull theil
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yeah pulled the veil off I had like a full snot bubble coming out oh my God no way Jared's reaction did anyone come and
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save your snot bubble like someone come and wipe it away so you just had a snot bubble just hanging there for the entire
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ceremony I looked yeah I looked like a straight up mess on a side not who's this shitty camera person that you booked that didn't get Jared's reaction
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of seeing you walking down the aisle that's like one of the most important things to capture they were amazing but that's what I did say I did think that
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though I was like we should have got that shot and he says that he cried and I look it's not that like obviously it
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doesn't really matter even though deep down it doesn't matter to me but he says he cried well with your little conundrum
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that you faced I purposely Miss every ceremony yeah I want to dive into this m so you say that the ceremony is not as
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important as a reception that makes no sense it's important it's important for the bride and groom yeah but everything
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like realistically who needs to be there to witness it if I had okay put this way n if you had a choice between the
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ceremony or the reception only one which one are you choosing only one okay they're both
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really like well ceremony I wouldn't say is fun it's just beautiful to witness okay put it this way sitting on
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uncomfortable Ste seats if seats are provided yeah even if you get seats if they're provided number two waiting
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around could if it's outside in the the hot weather if it's inside in the hot church or hall or whatever it is y
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yep or that's pretty much it or at a
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reception where there's free food there's free alcohol there's music to dance is a party come on now yeah the
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recep I'm picking reception over cere all day every day I'm sorry especially religious ceremonies they just drag on
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man you can't understand because the one speaker works and it's at the front of the church always one speaker only one
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speaker and you're like what did he say what did he say nah I'm going to choose a ceremony that because you know what no
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because is that a girl thing is that a girl thing maybe I don't think well it might be it might not be but what I do know is seeing your you know your two
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best mates at a church or wherever it is they do the ceremony my experience has always been in a church when I've
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watched people you know unite and when they read their vows and they you know they look at each other and like they're
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crying it's just it's so why why do people invite a certain amount of people to the ceremony and then invite a
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different certain amount of people to the reception they usually invite more to the reception that's what I'm saying so they want their closest to be at the
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so is it an honor to go to the ceremony yeah of course of course it is I don't get me wrong I show up to the ceremony
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just like with a minute left so they think I was there the whole time they're not paying attention to who's there right exactly they don't know they're
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they're facing the front they're not turning around and looking who's behind him no and then I sh at the end just to congratulate him and be like yeah that was a beautiful ceremony amazing
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ceremony um but you got to also remember I'm AR we've got we've got fortn nightly weddings you need to understand that I
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don't have an hour of my Saturday or Sunday to just sit and watch you what are you doing honestly what are you
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doing on your Sunday Saturday not go on to ceremonies tell you that much that's like the worst
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time as well by the way like you show up 5 minutes at towards the end and then they have that like period for like a
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few hours before the reception anyway cuz they have to get photos so like that's the worst time to show up anyway no that's at that point I'm with my
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cousins and with with the boys we go to Hungry Jacks we have this weird ritual of um between ceremony and reception we
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go hungry Jack everyone does Hungry Jack I go to KFC oh did you go KFC KFC we we do hungry J because I say a canopy
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provided you get there and it's just like a a little tiny um like a croat or something something terrible [ __ ] time
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yeah yeah yeah and it's been sitting there for a long time and everyone's had their fingers and no I'd rather go lick my own fingers at KFC I agree with you
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drive around go I've never been in this area look at some houses yeah yeah we do that too yeah yeah yeah dri look at some
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houses I don't know why I don't come to Beverly Hill more of that's so true it's the in between moments of of of of
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weddings that are the most exciting moment I enjoy them yeah yeah it's the moment we're not my mind we're alone
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there's no one around us like literally the cemon is the best part and you guys are checking out real estate this makes
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no sense I didn't know that was down there oh there's a little we should come here we should and you never end up going cuz there's no point going out
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there cuz what's going to bring you out there other than a wedding just a wedding exactly oh jeez I can't believe we lying I've never knew that about you
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yes we should go to a wedding together or not to go yeah we we should go to the in between we should go to the in
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between together oh screw the ceremony so you missed the
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ceremony did they know you missed the ceremony yeah like as soon as I got to the reception oh so she took the light
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away from the whole wedding the whole entire wedding was bit of Nisha not being there well more like how does
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someone lock themselves out I think I felt like yeah I felt like such an idiot and I was like I'm sorry she ini it ini
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it I did and it's so expensive like why is that the fee for a call out like he
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opened it in like 5 minutes and it was like $100 for one minute well it was
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$100 to bring him out he probably drove 40 minutes to get paying for his exp that's fine $100 150 200 but like close
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to like like 300 and something well just remember just remember that locksmith
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has the capabilities of just breaking into your house and taking what he wants it's the expertise and he's not so you're paying for that as well I mean I
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feel like that's just a decent thing to do just don't break into someone's house like yeah feel that's legal but anyway
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it was very expensive so my weekend was yeah sounded fun that sounds very fun intense I going to really go to this in
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between of the years I'm excited about the next one okay um well from a from a a marriage to a breakup a council corner
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has landed on our desk from Amelia oh yes so Amelia wrote into US is actually quite sad uh and she goes 5 months ago
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my four year relationship with Sam came to an unexpected end he said he needed to figure out things on his own which
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was shock uh to me we had so many plans together and I really thought he was the love of my life since the breakup I've
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tried keeping myself busy and hanging out with friends nothing seems to fill the Gap he left uh she often catches
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herself scrolling through his social media not good Amilia no not good at all uh and it just makes me feel worse it's
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been tough trying to move on when I feel so connected to our past Amelia is asking us how do I move on oh I feel
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really bad breakups suck they suck have you been through a breakup
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I mean I imagine she's like they suck no but of course like it's heartbreak at the end
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of the day like you can imagine it but you can't fully imagine it if you haven't gone through it just imagine
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Jared right looking at you in the eyes and saying Amisha lost love for you oh
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don't want to do this anymore I want to go our separate ways yeah and he literally goes from being the love of
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your life your everything your best friend so your house is empty to Absolute strangers even when you walk
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past each other in the street there's not even a high it's just oh that's heartbreaking yeah my heart like my my
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stomach just you you've been through a break up yes yes I have actually with my wife ah so it's a happy ending yeah so
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ended up being a happy ending so there was one stage in our relationship yeah both happy endings yes it was one one
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stage in our relationship where we broke up yeah for about maybe eight months to a year who who who initiated it I did so
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you and I was so so what what oh I was going to say so you've also never experienced the whole you're a stranger
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to me forever not for oh yes so we're teenagers but
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like like teenagers yes of course I've been through other relationships but this was this was like this was like uh
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probably 18 when Len and I got together and then uh by I think two years later we broke up um and yeah it was just a
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Crossroads in my life personally I um I just like I had opportunities come up
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which was in the City so it's about an hour away from us and I thought I'd take the opportunity and then we started
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doing it I was like oh okay would it's not aligning and I I met a lot of people
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did a lot of things and then I realized hold on this is not I'm not happy here and then one day I had this like nervous
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breakdown and drove for 8 hours from which was a place called Aubry yeah yeah it's in the middle of nowhere middle of
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nowhere cuz we were on tour from music I was on tour then and then I drove 8 hours back to Sydney dropped off the the
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rent car then drove to lra's house at like 1: in the morning called her and said are you are you like
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are you free are you free she came out and then we then I basically like not begged for her back but I basically like
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said hey I'd like to that's that's straight out of a ROM call and then we and then we slowly started to build a
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relationship again and then now we're married two kids what did she like when you when you rocked up at her door like
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what was her initial reaction like when you were like I like you know obviously I'm sure you said something like I can't live without you yada yada like what was
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was she like receptive to it off the bat or was she just like go away no she wasn't go away at all no no no she she
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was she cuz we we maintained contact here and there but it was never like
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anything further than how you going but she like I changed as a person through that thing and I went through this phase
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of just like yeah you know you getting all this attention from music and all that stuff and I thought it was really
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cool and everything and that I meant that I found that that was nothing that meant nothing so then I obviously you
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know had to change again but but um yeah so she was receptive she was fine and then we we we just rebuilt it
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but I don't know how things would have went I I always attest like my part of
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My Success is to the relationship I have with her yeah um a lot of it because it was always like we were each other's
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backbones and this is why it's so difficult when you hear aelia's story of how she sort of felt probably similar to
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that she's obviously she's trying to distract herself with work I'm sure she's got friends she's trying to go and see but this gu just is in her mind and
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this is why I'm saying it's only been 5 months in my experience we were not together for 8 months maybe he maybe
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he'll wake up one day and go hold on for a second I've tried to change I've tried to go and find myself and that could be
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what's going on now he could just be trying to find himself cuz she said that she said that did she say anything about
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the breakup being bad uh no she didn't she well if the breakup wasn't bad maybe was just him saying look I need to go
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and find myself cuz that's essentially what I did then maybe he's maybe he'll come back back you just you can't just
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you just got to let it happen no but I I don't think look I get your experience is so unique like obviously that might
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happen but these are all like what ifs if she holds on to that I feel like it might become a more negative situation
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that's what I'm saying we need to we need to talk about what's next don't talk about what if yes that's it yeah
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right all she can control why are you laughing oh cuz I've been through this many times like I feel like I can
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resonate with Amelia more than any of you guys can yeah of course ridiculously I've come and gone like I said best
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friends to Absolute strangers like I have walked past my ex in the street and she hasn't even made eye contact with me
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I was with this person for 2 years that itself is one of the hardest things you
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ever have to cope with cuz you're like am I that much of a piece of [ __ ] to judge yeah like she's probably
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copying that because she's not hearing from him um she hasn't got a text maybe maybe her birthday passes social media
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and seeing him on his stories prob enjoying his life you need to do what I and I learn this
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early after my first break I don't know if you guys can attest to this but for me losing someone
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to a breakup is like losing someone to death it is the same feeling of loss
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right you need to have a funeral for this man that's like I know it sounds crazy a funeral you're not saying kill
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him no no don't kill the man you're not saying that no no I'm just saying treat him like he's no longer existing here on
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Earth M so host a ceremony host a ceremony do you wear all black in your funerals well
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it depends if you want to celebrate it or if you want to mourn it it's very simple I celebrate my so can you tell us about a funeral that you've hosted yes
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which one should we talk about we'll talk wow which one should we talk about he doesn't go to marriage ceremonies
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with funerals apparently he's a number one attendee I have you need your funeral uh designed and uh planned by
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someone is funeral services that's a great little um not a bad IDE that's not a bad idea no seriously so I once the
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second we break up I don't believe in going back to someone that's just that's just my opinion once you break up that's
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it it's done right unless you want to reset in 5 six years time where there's enough gap for you to actually reset
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right and things might have changed then I get that um but very simple you have
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broken up MH if you have anything of his at your house any photos any anything like that you say goodbyes and you get
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rid of them okay you get rid of them photos delete them forever don't keep them in a stash somewhere whatever if
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you've got gifts from him maybe that aren't expensive get rid of them porn them porn them if you have to get rid of
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everything um and then the the third most important thing which is very similar to someone that's passed away no
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contact you block their number you block their socials block any way that you can
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get in contact with this person and consider them gone what if you see them though like let's say after you've done
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all that and you're at your local cafe and you they happen to walk in what are
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you do in that instance you go God you look like my ex that passed
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away you see this is the thing like it's a great it's a great I think I think like obviously the deleting stuff and
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all that right I get that but I think the important thing in this would be actually having a ceremony like actually
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hosting a a f minute you write up your thing you read it back to yourself maybe
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you like even like bury the freaking photos or something I don't know like just something that you actually can do
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to signify an end 100% And then you go through the stages from there you know
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why you do that though because human nature and this is how the human brain works right the reason why you're upset
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at breakups there's one main reason why you're actually very upset and it's hard to get over it it's cuz your future has
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now changed yeah and you are worried about the future that's that's where the anxiety comes from that's true the
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anxiety comes from the unknown what goes through your mind like will I ever find someone will I will I ever have
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kids especially depending on what age you're at um but it's for the first couple months what makes it crazy is
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anyone that comes into your life that could be potential partner you keep comparing to that ex it is so messed up to do but no one because you're so used
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to this one person and you looked at them as as the future and like I'm going to die with this person no one ever goes
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no one aligns with them so you're always comparing you're like no this person's not good enough how many times has that happened for you like where you've met
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had three long longterm breakups but as in like people like that have that
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you've dated but you were like this person is 100% my future how many people have has happened to you for properly
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properly yeah one but but the other ones obviously you still had that love and that care and that friendship with
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attachment the emotional it was still very very very hard um so what do you do here Amilia what
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does Amelia do I think the funeral concept's cool yeah I think that could work I think at least at least the
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beginning she needs to rewind her brain what it's the it's boundaries it's distance it's like you said the concept
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of the funeral is literally just you have to separate yourself from this person don't hold on to what ifs and
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hopes and potential with this individual they've obviously cut you out of their life and you know for whatever reason
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they got to do what they got to do they're honest you got to appreciate that but obviously it's so hard so I
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would say stop checking his stor that's the worst thing you can do stop checking first things first get rid of his social
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media block it restrict everything just delete him right off your phone so you never have to see him the absence will
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cure it that's right and time will heal it oh of course Time Heals everything it's look it's not easy and it's not
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going to be but ultimately at the end of the day you have to put yourself first I me go out and try and meet other people
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like they always say if you can't get over someone get under someone look I I don't know if that's healthy at all I
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think I think well I know the trans like this the transfer of energy in sex is very uh sacred and very you know vital
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you want to hold on to that however you also want to have some fun so I would I
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would I wouldn't just go be a mad [ __ ] but I would unless you want to unless you want to but I'll just but like you'd
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want to you'd want to at least go and experience what CU you never know what else you can find okay now look this is
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the advice that I think you never know what you can find I think this is what you should do you should go you might find a huge cor that's oh my God that's
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exactly what wasn't there you know like you don't know unless you try no you don't need to be promiscuous all you
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need to do is go hang out with your friends go do your hobbies and like if you happen to meet someone down the
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track you do but it's I don't think the whole rebound thing and all that I I'm not for that okay I think maybe this is
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the most appropriate answer find yourself treat yourself as your best
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friend treat yourself as your partner take yourself out on dates Yas does it all the time do you and you know what I respect
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but I respect that about you you you've told me you've gone to the movies by yourself I've been doing that
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since I was 10 years old and I love that about you I think that's so powerful because for fil because for someone to
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actually I've taken myself out in a lunch date and I was like oh I really love you and I was like thanks I love you too no you haven't I seriously did I
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went to Thai my favorite food no one ever wants to eat Tha food there was someone across his table being like this guy speaking to himself no I'm not
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talking to myself but just going out eating dinner relaxing eating lunch sorry putting up a little Netflix or whatever just chilling and just spending
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time with yourself that's not what you said you said classified as a date no no like I'm just thinking it I didn't
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really say it out loud even thinking it was a bit weird you never thought to yourself you know what like thank you
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for giving me me time no do I need to see a like a doctor
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or something I do no I think I think it's good I think it's a positive thing to
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take yourself out on a date take care of yourself get rid of your social media have a little funeral and I think that I think that would be the way to re re
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restructure your little uh wise in your brain there start focusing on other things and plan your future now that's
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right so uh we recently launched our Instagram broadcast channel guys uh we put up the poll as to um what should we
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call the broadcast channel and the people within it yeah and it's come down to cancel Squad I love that name I like
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cancel Squad no but do you think cancel Squad is right because it shouldn't have be cancelled Squad no I like cancel
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Squad cancel Squad sounds better we are the cancel Squad I like cancel Squad but that doesn't mean like we're going to go out and cancel people and I don't want
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to be like that cuz that's not what we're about I see what you mean then I got a tissue sorry to just um my leg's
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bleeding what just really random where yeah bleeding just there's a lot of
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freaking blood use A's jacket dirty just pass me that whatever
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that is on is that a paper or is that a tissue but I wash the coffee with I WIP the coffee sorry okay cool where's the
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BL coming from Stained on me but where is it coming from I got a cut on my leg and I must have just like
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rubbed it on something gosh you scratched your scab can I li it no don't
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Li yeah it tastes sweet no it tastes like straight steel yeah own blood it's
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other people's blood that tastes sweet anyhow moving on can cancel cancel Squad
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why are you looking at me like that that so strange she like sorry cancel Squad we'll come back to you in a sec why were
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you staring at me like that because I said something like a normal human being I was like oh it's like it's it's iron
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and then no one responded and then I was just waiting you're waiting for a response is it that is the iron in the
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iron that actually we buil stuff yeah I actually think that you could be like the perfect embodiment of a of a of a
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dog what what do you me not in a bad way like you know how a dog waits for like your your
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instruction it's a natural thing when you have a conversation you say something usually you wait for respond I was waiting to hear what well there you
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go the iron that we build Bridges from is the same iron that in our blood yeah that's actually factual that's fact
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we'll get to some facts later back to cancel cancel so cancel Squad we have we have the members it's opened up people
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are a part of it and we're and and we're interacting with them um I puted a call out y Nishi for uh what should we cover
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in our next episodes yeah and one thing came back when I thought this is brilliant what is it growing up ethnic
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versus Australian and I'm sure that the Australian part meant to be like the white Australian that's what I was
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thinking it is and everyone that's different culture different cultures so growing up as an ethnic as verse Aussie
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and we to discuss that there's so many stories that I could sh I always like I always feel like I have like my feet in
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like between two entire worlds like literally because like my parents moved
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here um and my brother was born in India my parents were born in India I was the first to be I was the first as well from
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I was the first first generation first generation Aussies anyway so we like o o
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I was born in Sydney in in um West me right and I remember like like l
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literally there was so many events like my parents found all the Indian Community in in uh Sydney and then when
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we moved to CRA same thing they found the whole entire Indian Community can I ask where you lived in Sydney uh parata
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was it parata or was it um what's that was that Indian place right next to the par that everyone all the Indians live
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in where it's not Granville it's something else I don't know to be honest I know I
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I know it was parata there's this one area near par like literally just outside parah and it's like lindia Lind
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it's called lindia isn't it lindia maybe I'm not sure but I know it was par I was really young param meta Cula we lived in
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Preston we lived in we lived quite a few places r a bit yeah anyway but one thing
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that I realized has become a deep issue of mine and this is because this is something I've witnessed growing up and
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I'm sure both of you have experienced this too but like every time we went out for a family dinner and when I mean
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family like would have we call everyone Auntie and Uncle by the way they're not blood related but we just out of respect
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we don't say their first name we say auntie and uncles would you know go to dinner and usually the two head of the
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families being the dads like the the you know my uncle or and my dad would finish
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dinner and then they would fight about who's going to pay yeah fight over who paying that's the norm that's a very
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ethnic ethnic thing to do yeah it's like no I will no I will no oh my God and like you would watch them for five minut
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and like who's going to win and they don't care who's around you either it's like they will actually go World War III they'll go literally and like and then
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it gets all the way like it continues all the way to the to when they have to pay and then both their cards are going
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on top of each other and it's like is this like a thing that that ethnics do like to show Power or is it like a thing
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that ethnics do to like it's care they we got it but are we sure that's just an ethnic thing though like how do like I
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don't look I've because I I look at it this way then good point you bring it up because I look at it when I go to the pub with the boys yeah it's always shout
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everyone shouts so it's your round yeah or when you go for dinner it's your it's your shout tonight but no but people
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usually split the bill that's what I've or split the split the bill but if you say split the bill in an Indian like you
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know family situation it's like that doesn't exist it's like someone pays for
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everyone right so now when I go for lunches or I go for dinners or like just with friends like you know who who I've
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grown up with here I hate it because I always feel inclined I'm like I should
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pay for everyone or like I'm like who's going to pay I get like really worried about that conversation at the end it's
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literally why I pay for everything is that why it's embedded in my in my just watching my dad pay for everything
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always or like making it a big deal that you you have to pay exactly so yeah it doesn't matter who I'm with I'm always
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attempting to P I feel rude to be like all right so um let's uh let's see how much you owe and let's see that's the
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worst it's so awkward I'm I have no problems with that I have no problems with splitting the bill I don't know why
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splitting the bill is fine I love the concept but it's just more asking people like literally like having a their food
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like pay for your own food bro yeah but no but don't you think there's always that one [ __ ] in the in the group that
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goes well mine's actually $4 check yeah they I'm only paying 24 not 2 and it's
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like brother like shut up and make it easier for everyone just split it even split I don't care what you order you should have ordered three Mills that's
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your own go out and go out and Order don't go ahead and go I'm just going to get this salad cuz I'm only paying four bucks yeah yeah yeah and there's that
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one person who's like oh I'm just going to have a drink or I just have drinks and not you know eat the food and they and they become very picky about how
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much they Ow like to the sense I had someone who was trying to get me back for
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$2 I believe that what nationality they they were Indian so they must have been
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brought up differently to me I don't know which was it was a bit odd but like they were like no I need to get my $2
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back and that kind of shocked me a little bit but like I understand some people have different Financial situations so it's okay $2 it's not
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going to change your life well for some people it it does my ethnic uh growing
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versus Aussie growing was a little bit different to that a little bit more light-hearted uh my dad would always
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wear socks with sandals oh that's a that's that's a right majority of the time and obviously on hot days he would
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wear just sandals but socks with sandals what's wrong with that I've never seen
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an Aussie wear socks with sandals I think that's actually true though I haven't seen Aussie wearing socks with sandals but like yeah that that's normal
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in my household have you yeah see that's what I'm saying that's that's an ethnic household that's how you know that your ethnic is when you're wearing socks you
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literally see me like come to work wearing socks and sandals yeah I know
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isn't socks and sandals normal I don't think it's normal for like a traditional like Aussie thing it's just thongs or
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bare feet yeah no no no but we're not talking thongs and and whatever we're not talking thongs yet not thongs and socks sandals and and socks yeah that's
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fine yeah that's fine but I'm what I'm trying to say I know it's fine oh but ver and Aussie no Aussie's ever I've
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never seen aie we socks and sandals maybe unless you're like 80 and at the bows Club that's the only time you'd see
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an Aussie with socks and sandals on I haven't seen it could we be honest with something here sorry to all the Aussie
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listeners out there like the true blue Aussies yeah stop wear stop going Barefoot on
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the streets like stop going to the stop going to the petrol station Barefoot just just look it's a hazard however I
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understand the convenience I there's this okay you get judged you get judged you get judged by
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a lot of us really you don't judge people that walk that walk Barefoot on the streets and I was in I was in I'm
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sorry man I was at the liquor store on Friday if you say you're BF I'm going to punch list I was at a liquor store on
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Friday I went and bought I went and bought something and someone was behind me in the line Barefoot grub buying
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alcohol disgusting it's all right it's not a big deal and he had a huge cut on his
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toe and he brought the wine and I and I looked down at his feet and I said what happened to your foot no you didn't I
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did I did and then he goes oh I just cut it that's why I'm buying the alcohol and I said like it had a bottle of wine and
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I'm like what are you going to do with it Pour it on it he's like yeah I'm going to take a SG and then I'll pour some on it and then I'll
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take I'm like these Barefoot freaks you know I I get bare feet if
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you're living somewhere in bar and Bay by the beach if you need the beach that's fine I get it cuz you just it's that's just like I don't know why but
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they get away with it they just get away with it yeah if I go to the beach and at Bond want to get a drink I'll probably walk Barefoot to and and I also get the
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concept like in spirituality terms I also get the concept of being grounded all the time that's why you wear no shoes cuz it blocks the groundedness to
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the earth I get that now K's Weir side's coming out K's Weir and sometimes I purposely go and stand on my grass in
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the backyard with no shoes on but that's grass apparently that's good thing to do that's what I've heard and and it it does that whole thing to your feet by
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going to the liquor store the petrol station warw worths anywhere public put
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some socks and sandals on wear socks and sandals at least yeah stay
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warm oh god oh jeez all right I found this uh I found this little bit of
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content guys around ants and um it's when he was doing the grounders that's
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probably when it yeah yeah I was just thinking and um when an ant bites you I was on red it and I found this thing about when ants how this is how they
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actually bite you and why it hurts so bad I sent you an email pull it up the video yeah I was about to say you sent a
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link I'll play it through here okay um and it explains what an ant actually
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does to you when it bites you now everyone's being bitten by an ant yeah hence the reason why you put socks and
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sandals on maybe and I'm sure the Barefoot people would uh definitely relate to this I've
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been B it by ant so or have a listen and see exactly what they do to you check this out okay when an ant bites you it
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grabs your skin with its Pinchers but it's not actually the Pinchers that hurt you you see the ant uses them to hold on
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to your skin but then they bend their bodies upwards and stab you with their
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stinger now because they're holding on to you with such a good grip it allows the ant to sting you multiple times in
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the same area this injects you with their venom which causes that sharp stinging
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pain I'm sorry did we all witness the same thing did you just see how this thing continuously just Rams you with
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its sting I feel sexually assaulted sexual assault that is okay I I kid you
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not I was in the grass one day D I was probably doing what he was doing now I
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was in the grass uh was doing a shoot and I was uh like I don't even like you know the term ants in your pants like
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there was like 10 of them I got bit by 10 ants no you didn't get bit get beaten you got
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molested he got you got gangbanged he got by 10
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hands you go one I have no words but honestly just W look that
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visual yeah not the same that's so weird that is really odd
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that's really odd Is that real though is that actually scientific yeah yeah yeah yeah are we sure yeah it's on the
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interesting as F uh Reddit uh subreddit oh that sounds very um there's 50 there's
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56,000 up votes so like this is real [ __ ] this is real [ __ ] I love people's
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comments what an [ __ ] God lock that ant up bro yeah people are oh my God yeah I like imagine
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imagine the ants like when they're getting taught as kids how they attack humans and watching your dad go you
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holding like do and then you do that and it's going back and forth so that's how
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you sting a that's how you get a human why did you have to take it there don't know so you're watching your dad do that
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no was watch logically embedded in them on how to how to do that it's there're
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stinging at the end of the day that's I know everyone's taught these things too Nishi oh God it's just strange isn't it
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it is very strange and it's very painful I'll tell you that much and it makes sense because look how and also in the
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video look how far it goes God everything how far it goes in are they wearing protection Jesus you know what
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else I real what they're like holding on to you with their
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mouth um what is called their claws whatever it is very s that's not their mouth is it that that's that's
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claws right I have no idea pinches pinches pinch that's the word pinches is the right thing pinches of their mouth
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isn't it it's messed up it's very messed up all right well let's get to a fact check
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here yeah all right we got to do a fact check every every episode or at least once a week or something because um I
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put out this question on our um on the canel squad and um tell us an
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interesting fact about your country and uh one of the viewers from the UK um
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I don't know how to say this name buts in the why but inw huh okay but Sy way
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oh it's the name of the person name of the person but in way so shout out thanks for listening and participating here they came out and said that in the
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UK get this water in England was so toxic during the plague times I'm
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assuming that's medeval times mhm that it was replaced with be the plague wasn't medieval no when never like would
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never a plague this specific point in time he was saying and I typed in to check this out to see if this was true
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we doing a fact check on this cuz I How could an entire civilization at that time replace water with beer that's not
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possible I I I don't believe that so I typed it in the article from how stuff
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works challenges the common misconception that medieval people primarily drank beer instead of water
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due to water toxicity but you have to use water to make make be makes no sense here go on it presents evidence
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suggesting that water was in fact commonly consumed and often clean yeah especially in larger towns with
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infrastructure for water supply the idea that be replaced water during the plague or other periods during other periods
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due to toxicity is not supported by historical records okay according to the information presented in the article um
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and that's the details you have well that makes sense so it's not real however at one point in time they
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believe that bee had nutritional value and would drink beer more often than more often than not yeah yeah okay I
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believe that I'm just a little um disappointed that you actually had to go Google that you couldn't use your common
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sense go humans want survive on just be bro hunch hold on back in the day and I
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don't know I'm obviously like hundreds of years ago I'm assuming I don't know I'm going to sound so dumb now when I say this but at one point people would
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drink wine in replacement of water it wasn't in replacement of water no I mean they're drinking water as well but like
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wine was highly con consumed because because water uh something to do with
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this is what I heard but water wasn't as uh like I don't know the toxicity levels
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or whatever in you're literally repeating what he said just replacing be with with Y but I'm pretty sure doing
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can I I have to Google this I'm sorry cuz I don't want to look like dumb I'm pretty sure wine is probably more consumed now than it ever was in in the
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world okay but hold on hold on guys the understand that society would not last on just alcohol you would die very young
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Australians are very close to it and you got to also remember they spend a whole weekend on our funny enough I don't ask
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me why I googled this last night do not ask me why I Googled how do wells work
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Wells like Wells you know in water wells oh yeah okay do you guys know how wells work no what so simple isn't there just
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water under there and they just drop a bucket all you do is you dig water deep enough dig a hole deep enough yeah sorry
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dig water you dig a hole deep enough um depending on where you are and where you're Landing sometimes it doesn't it can be shallow sometimes the hole has to
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be really really deep right but eventually you're going to get to the water level of the um of the earth and what it does is it just automatically
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fills up with clean water automatically you just put a bucket down grab it and come up and it always stays full that's
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why some wells are like a kilometer deep and others are like 15 M yeah some are even less you can actually get a but
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hold on isn't there dirt in it yeah but it's clean it's not like toxic oh okay you just got to filter or boil whatever
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it's been filtered it's being going through the process of Earth cleaning it yeah okay so sorry I wasn't list to any
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of that because I was doing some Googling deep research and yes is correct uh once again I'm disappointed
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you had to Google it can I let me let me just read this out because I think it's important for people who believed what I
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believed uh it's a myth okay so it's one of it's a myth it's a myth about the
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Middle Ages hold on are you reading what I just read it's the same thing the link how
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stuff works no but but this is like something that like it's a common myth okay that people did not drink water
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there was many many books and articles and historical stuff where they repeated the idea that the water was so polluted
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um that people in the medieval times only drank like wine ale and stuff like that however apparently there is like a
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lot of evidence that people drank water probably survival uh but it's it's but it's go it's true that medieval people
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rarely wrote about their love of water that's why probably in the Chronicles Jesus turns water to wine
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once and history goes crazy oh god oh there you go fact check
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that is not factual but andn buts and DNE B andw from the UK there great all right
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let's get on to motivational quote of the day oh yeah who's doing it today yazy today how' you go did you find something to give us some motivation
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there big boy I did these are rubbish I've got a whole list here they're so
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bad you just started searching just make one up just started searching to be honest I want to be a bit different
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today so I Googled um I Googled uh uh motivational quotes that are underrated okay okay if this is not
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[ __ ] if this is not underrated actually it's not bad okay good we
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are why sorry Sor okay I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry I'm sorry straight faces everyone okay straight straight faces
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when you say straight face I can't pull it straight face what is a straight face just just neutral neutral face neutral
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face that's not a neutral face we are what we repeatedly
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do Excellence then is not an act but a
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habit say that one more time for me say that one more time we are what we repeatedly
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do Excellence then is not an act but a habit
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overrated oh underrated or overated no it's it's overrated it's not underrated you guys love sh I think that's I think
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that's really good I like that I connected with that think about it n yeah no I get it he's basically saying
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that like you are what you do so if you just keep doing doing good then it'll become a habit and you have to think about it but then but you just be good
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you're just good if you can make yourself if you can act and be and always do whatever you do to the
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absolute Excellence it will become the habit of being absolute absolute excellent I get it but it just doesn't
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feel profound can I just say this honestly for two years now a Nisha has been [ __ ] on my murder you know what
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not true that's that's being that's who she is yeah 100% so that's all she's going
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to be doing if you did better quotes every time you would just be good and I
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wouldn't [ __ ] on you like that's you know H well take from it what you want to take from it thanks for the
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motivational Qui thanks for being here today it's the already cancelled podcast we'll see you next time see you guys [Music]
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